Module 07 · Course Summary课程总结
Key Visuals初始吸引图解
Learning Objective 3: Identify how each of the four determinants of initial attraction works. 学习目标 3：识别四个初始吸引决定因素各自如何起作用。
Reviewing the following key visual will help prepare you for the cumulative quiz.
审阅以下关键视觉将帮助您为综合测验做好准备。
Reciprocal Liking Creates a Self-Fulfilling Prophecy 相互喜爱创造自我实现的预言
One of the key points to know about reciprocal liking is that it can create a self-fulfilling prophecy in which our expectations make themselves come true. The following figure, Reciprocal Liking Creates a Self-Fulfilling Prophecy, illustrates how this happens. Briefly, our expectations about what a person thinks about us cause us to like or dislike them, which in turn changes our behavior toward them, which makes them like or dislike us. The take-home message of this is that your expectations are important because they can shape your reality!
互惠喜爱的一个重要要点是它可以创造一个自我实现的预言，其中我们的期望使它们自己成真。以下图表“互惠喜爱创造自我实现的预言”展示了这是如何发生的。简而言之，我们对一个人如何看待我们的期望导致我们喜欢或不喜欢他们，反过来又改变我们对待他们的行为，这使他们喜欢或不喜欢我们。这个要点是，你的期望很重要，因为它们可以塑造你的现实！
Reciprocal Liking Creates a Self-Fulfilling Prophecy 相互喜爱创造自我实现的预言
Note. Two flowcharts depicting two ways that reciprocal liking can generate a self-fulfilling prophecy are shown. In both of these cases, people’s expectations about whether someone likes them or dislikes them leads to that other person actually liking or disliking them. The first flowchart illustrates reciprocal liking. First, you think someone likes you. Then, you come to like that person via reciprocal liking. Then, you behave nicely to that person. Finally, that person comes to like you. The second flowchart illustrates reciprocal disliking. First, you think someone dislikes you. Then, you come to dislike that person via reciprocal disliking. Then, you behave rudely to that person. Finally, that person comes to dislike you.
注意。展示了两个流程图，描述了相互喜欢如何产生自我实现的预言的两种方式。在这两种情况下，人们对某人是否喜欢自己或不喜欢自己的期望，导致那个人实际上喜欢或不喜欢自己。第一个流程图说明了相互喜欢。首先，你认为某人喜欢你。然后，通过相互喜欢，你开始喜欢那个人。然后，你对该人表现得很好。最后，那个人开始喜欢你。第二个流程图说明了相互不喜欢。首先，你认为某人不喜欢你。然后，通过相互不喜欢，你开始不喜欢那个人。然后，你对该人表现得粗鲁。最后，那个人开始不喜欢你。